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Whole Person & Integrative Healing Retreats

Consulting your higher self, clear your future path with personal, comprehensive and integrative healing. Let your inner knowing guide you - release past burdens, meet today's challenges authentically, and create your future from a place of inner wisdom and alignment.

Services including Attachment-Focused EMDR, Vagus Nerve toning and Energy Healing (incl. Reiki, EFT Tapping, Biofeedback, somatic practices, mindfulness training), sound-based therapy, relaxation training, Ego State Therapy, hypnosis, memory reconsolidation, personal development courses, and more are available in-person, online, and in nature.
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Welcome

Arrivals Integrative Consulting is the solo, retreat- and course-focused therapy & consulting practice of Tony Parmenter. 
With Whole Person & Integrative Retreats, we offer an alternative path to healing - helping you to reach your fullest potential faster, softer, and with results!  We offer a flexible, creative, and holistic approach. With Attachment-Focused EMDR as the framework, the longer session allows us to integrate more than just memory processing - such as nervous system focused energy work, inner child and past life focused memory reconsolidation, strengths-based and future-focused life coaching, preparation and integration for psychedelic therapy, mind-body practices, and more to help you experience freedom and joy despite what has kept your life stuck in the mire of discomfort, boredom, or trauma.

All retreats receive complementary access to the Safe & Sound Protocol (SSP).

Each support session is uniquely tailored to your individual journey, creatively adapting the approach to address your specific life goals. Available in half-day or full-day formats, your Retreat Plan is designed to gently direct you past generational or long-standing barriers and towards a life of deeper meaning. Through this approach, we create a safe space for recovery and personal growth, helping you connect with your inner wisdom and move forward with renewed purpose and freedom; providing the guidance and support to ensure personal progress, and encouragement to continuously evolve, adapt, and grow despite however your past has influenced your life now.

Retreat formats

4 Day/Half day: 90-minute intake/prep session, 3-hour session Day 1 (am or pm), 3-hour session Day 2 (am or pm), 90-minute follow up.

3 Day/Full Day: 90-minute intake/prep session, full retreat day (6 face to face hours, 2 personal hours), 90-minute follow up.

Scheduling: Retreats happen in-person for full-days appointments and either online or in-person for 90-minute and half day sessions. Unless there is availability sooner, retreats are scheduled at least four weeks in advance.

Where? Online from your favorite place (half days only), or in-person at our offices in Vermont and Iowa, in nature, or another planned location.

Retreat rates: see below.

What might a retreat include? Learn more here!
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Tony Parmenter, owner and integrative consultant

A personal greeting

Hi there! I'm Tony. My life's passion has become to help people like you find joy and meaning, even in the face of life's extreme challenges. I believe in the inherent wholness which each person has and the ability for our bodies to heal. With this in mind, I find it meaningful and fun to explore, grow in, and work with a range of mind and body approaches to unlock your potential and elevate to your next level.

My journey to this work has been shaped by diverse experiences - from serving in Operation Enduring Freedom to teaching English as a Second Language in rural public schools in Asia, to experience as a Seeker, as an artist and musician, a trauma therapist, parent, and more. I'm deeply influenced by nature, multiculturalism, the unknown, punk culture, and integrative medicine. This unique blend allows me to offer a truly whole-person approach to wellness and helping you experience change that is authentic and natural for who you truly are.

As a trauma therapist, I pioneered the use of trauma therapy approaches in nature by developing the first published use of EMDR as a nature-based approach (Therapeutic Fly Fishing & EMDR (TF-EMDR)℠). I have always believed in the healing power of Earth itself to truly balance and integrate people into the fullest versions of ourselves. I understand life's ups and downs firsthand and know how challenging it can be to stay centered and grow in our chaotic world. But, I've also seen the incredible resilience of humanity in so many people who I have worked with! That's why I'm committed to helping you connect with your truest self and harness all of your inner strength and wisdom, to thrive and experience life as you are meant to know it.

Whether you feel like a prisoner to the results of unknown past experiences, are seeking personal growth, or looking to thrust your best self into the unknown future, I'm here to support and guide you. Together, we'll create a tailored approach that addresses your unique needs and goals, helping you move experienve a life of deeper meaning and freedom.

Let's embark on this journey of healing and discovery together. I'm excited to help you unlock your potential and create the life you desire.
Reach out today!

Professional Highlights

It's Tony again. While the "letters after someone's name" can allow someone to show achievement and that they are dedicated to professional development, these don't say everything. For most seekers, they are simply gobbledegook. Rather than lead you to think anything specific about me through letters, I have purposely left off all titles when referring to myself on this page. It's more important in the bigger picture that you sense me as a person, as it's that connection which help more work than any piece of paper or title that anyone has. The following information are highlights of my professional journey, for you to have a starting sense about where I come from.

Formal education

Master of Arts - Antioch University New England

Professional Certificate - University of Maryland Baltimore County

Bachelor of Science - Bellevue University

Associate of Applied Science - Community College of the Air Force

Processional Licensure

LMHC - Iowa, New York

LCMHC - Vermont/New Hampshire

LCPC - Maine

LADC/LAADC/CADC-II  - Vermont, California, Massachusetts

Training highlights

Komyo ReikiDo (Japanese Reiki) - Chuden; lineage: Usui, Hayashi, Yamagushi, Inamoto, Matsumura, Tony Parmenter

Usui Shiki Ryoho (Western Reiki) - Level 3 / Master; lineage: Usui, Hayashi, Takata, Furomoto, many other teachers, Tony Parmenter

Quantum Healing Hypnosis  - QHHT Practitioner 

EMDR - EMDRIA approved EMDR Consultant™ & certified EMDR Therapist™

Attachment-Focused EMDR - Laurel Parnell trained AF-EMDR Therapist

Psychedelic Assisted Therapy - Certified through Skylight Psychedelics

Certified in Critical Incident Stress Management (CCISM)

Career highlights

Creator of the MARS (Medicine-free Altered-state Recovery System) approach to memory reconsolidation and recovery

Creator of Therapeutic Fly-fishing with EMDR (TF-EMDR)℠

Podcast guest and Summit speaker as Founder, trainer, and main therapist for Seiyu Institute for Health & Training, L3C

Designer and developer of the Seiyu Therapy 33 tenkara fly-fishing rod

Therapeutic Fishing Guide with Strengthen Your Mind Initiative 

First responder-focused Therapist and Program Developer for various government and non-profit institutions

Veteran of Active Duty US Air Force and Operation Enduring Freedom

Teaching highlights

Adjunct Professor of Addiction Counseling, Purdue University System

Adjunct Professor of Behavioral Science, Bellevue University

Visiting Professor, New York University Tisch School of the Arts

Visiting Professor, Union Institute & University

Adjunct Professor of Addiction Counseling, Grand Canyon University

EMDR Basic Training Facilitation - ScalingUp EMDR; EMDR Humanitarian Assistance Program

ESL teacher - Hachioji, Tokyo Public Schools

Pricing Clarification

What about pricing?
Save money, schedule ahead of the line, and achieve deeper change and quicker results with a retreat.

The Arrivals, LLC standard hour rate is $336. Intensives are significantly discounted.

4 Session/Half day format: $3,000 total (90-minute intake/prep session, two separate 3-hour sessions, 90-minute follow up) - 9 total hours.

3 Session/Full Day format: $2,800 (90-minute intake/prep session, full retreat day with 6 "therapy hours" and 2 personal hours, 90-minute follow up) - 11 total hours.

Additionally, retreat participants receive complementary access to the Safe & Sound Protocol (SSP)... an additional $1,500 value!

*Payment for an intensive or retreat is due at the time of booking and is considered paid in full. Due to the amount of effort involved in scheduling, refunds are not possible.

**Subscription discounts are billed in full and it is the subscriber's responsibility to schedule time. Subscription services are offered as a values based service model - if you make progress, you will have the option to pay the remaining amount of the base rate.
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Clarification: Services provided through Arrivals Integrative Consulting are offered in a format which is not usually reimbursable by health insurance. If you are interested in receiving insurance-reimbursable psychotherapy, please visit www.seiyuinstitute.com or explore what is available in your neighborhood at psychologytoday.com.

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